Magic in the Room #159: Survival Strategies: How Do We Deal with Stress?
July 30, 2023
This week we are kicking off our new series on survival strategies. Our brain works hard to keep us safe and get us the things we need. When we encounter a stressful situation, our first reaction is always to do something that we believe will keep us safe. Sometimes this response is helpful, and sometimes it is unhelpful. In this episode of Magic in the Room, Luke, Hannah, and Chris discuss how we intentionally choose our response to stress to get the best outcome possible.
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Credits:
- This episode of Magic in the Room was recorded onsite in Big Sky, Montana.
- Music by Evan Grim. Find his music on
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